Monthly Archives: January 2013

The “Ministry of Reconciliation” is primarily about our God pursuing us and restoring us into relationship with Him. It is not about fixing our problems or behaviors.

Beyond being reconciled to God we are being reconciled to each other and ourselves through holiness and pure living. It’s about coming back to life- the life God created for people to live. The life of deep relationship, fulfillment, and … Continue reading

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In relationships health attracts health, and sickness attracts sickness.

If your drawn to someone with dysfunction, your dysfunctions are compatible.

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Depression is grief or anger that’s never been purely expressed

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Purity is necessary for a good life. Purity is not about “just being good”, rather it’s about being one.

Two meanings for “pure”: 1. That’s all there is in it. 2. That’s really what it is. God is pure: a multiple personality who never splits. We’re divided, separated, and fragmented, unlike God. Our anger is not connected to our … Continue reading

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Toxic shame prevents us from receiving love. It is a bully built from lies that needs to be put in his place

Grace is the beginning of our healing because it offers the one thing we need most: to be accepted without regard to whether we are acceptable. Grace stands for gift; it is the gift of being accepted before we become … Continue reading

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Our Creator is trustworthy. He is always true to His Word

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Feelings are important gauges. They help us survive as well as thrive

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The most basic need of a human infant is to engage its parents in an emotional attachment that will serve as the foundation for care, comfort, stimulation and interaction

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Without emotional attachments, infants fail to thrive and die

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Emotional pain resulting from trauma always devalues us with lying messages

We are not our pain. We release ourselves from the judgements we’ve made due to our painful experiences.

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The dull and pervasive pain of one who can’t feel their value can lead them to many worldly solutions to numb their pain

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